This doesnt sound like pranking but more like bullying. "Access" is all well and good until you wind up at an out-of-network emergency room. You have every right to limit contact now that they have crossed that line. I thought the exact same thing. They are crimes. NTA. Whenever I get a new job site I make it clear I love pranks. And what you cannot do is allow this to continue, because Tim doesn't deserve to spend the rest of his life being tortured by your extended family. My asthma is not that severe but Ive been there I really needed the inhaler. Recently, I bought a new car which I use everyday and let my mom and stepdad take it whenever they need. in her text, she said we got better seats, so i asked who we is. Like good for you for uninviting them but they had to threaten to kill your husband for you to do that? I know you were brought up to believe this is normal, but it's not. I would have brought the hammer after the first incident. At this point, I'd be uninviting mom too. Get away from your family, theyre even bigger assholes. I have endometriosis. How manly would their intake photos look. I honestly think ESH. He has had some health complications straight after and I feel like they blame me for this as well. These are not funny pranks, these are "how much will you take?" It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. Best of luck. Damn he must love you to have continued to be abused. OP needs to ask her dad what hed think if her future MIL learned she had what could be a fatal allergy to nuts & decided to slip her some to test her womanliness. Stand your ground; theyre wrong, and ridiculously immature. They didn't even stick around so if he had an attack, what would he do? I myself have an in law I do not like but noone would ever know it because I respect and love my brother. You should have nipped this in the bud after the first incident. I usually dont agree with people on this sub when they say to cut people off for the simplest of transgressions, but this is more severe. He has had some health complications straight after and I feel like they blame me for this as well. These are not pranks. just an umbrella term or have multiple meanings. If there's any chance of any form of healing this extended family it's by them realising how badly they've messed up, and them having to "man up" to take the consequences of their actions could be what's needed. Then reply that you lost all respect for them for running to you over a little prank and they should man up already and stop bring soft, NTA Stick to your guns girl. Are there other men in their circle? I would presume that they had a similar experience with him.". I don't know a single man that does those supposed "challenges". English? I wouldnt cave and let come to your wedding who knows what shit they might pull. His entire family has disowned me and they're all blocked on my phone after sending me awful messages. All these grownass dudes doing this just cannot see they're actually showing everyone how stupid they'd rather be. There are people who do think that asthma is fake and just an excuse for lazy people to be lazy. I hated every bit of it. Sounds like someone is worried that the college boy might be smarter or somehow better than them and they want to take him down a notch. Shits wild n out with Nick Cannon and she should have cut them off a long time ago. NTA OP, but I wouldnt let them around your husband because they did endanger his life. This isn't much different from slipping someone a food you KNOW they're allergic to. TBH, if I were your fianc, I'd probably end the relationship if you DONT go NC with them, because they're literally dangerous to him. Maybe see what your cousin has to say (BC the nature of his panicking, it might be that he wants to genuinely apologise, at least that's how I've read it,) but as far as I'm concerned you'd be better cutting them all off. The men of your family are toxic. That's a prank. These are no pranks, this is bullying. He was abusive in every way but was a master manipulator. (unsaid: Sir, if it was in the wrong spot, we wouldn't know that, or we wouldn't have put it there now, would we?). There's a difference between pranks and harassment. Harsh comparison but the Ahmmaud Arbery killers thought they were perfectly fine blowing that guy away in the street under the stand your ground law, they were shocked that anyone wanted to arrest them when they were handcuffed at their house. Family should be loving, welcoming, and supportive first, and then if they have concerns about the way they see him treating you they have a talk with you about it. These People are monsters, NTA and please consider what they might do should you ever have a son. But to placate your family, tell them theres one thing they could do that will make you reconsider: A manly challenge, if you will, where only by their manliness will they be accepted. You can certainly take them on trips and include them in the family activities and all that, but always follow the number one rule of life, Don't be a dick. NTA. He needs that to live! Also tell your mom you didn't ruin the relationship, they did with their attitude and nobody else gets a say, your decision is final and they have to be "man enough" to accept the consequence of their childish actions. Truth is Timmy no longer feels comfortable being around them so this is saying something but he says he doesn't want to drive a wedge between me and my family. OP found somebody committed to her. Good lord, NTA!!! I was pinching pennies for a good chunk of that trip. in addition to all of this also remember that there is a reason why married men live longer and the "nagging" wife who insists that they go see a doctor is a huge part of why. I mentioned this in another comment below but I had to get all my tires replaced last October right before I went on vacation and that cost ran over 600. But I had an attack, not that long ago, that landed me in the hospital overnight. They hid his inhaler???? Glad you're moving on. These are not pranks. Not only should you uninvite them to the wedding, you should go NC on the entire lot of them! Typical stepdad behavior. Which would your husband prefer, an hour at the doctor or a lifetime in adult diapers? I advise you to go NC with your family. It was not fun. Standing up for your fiance is the best thing you could have done, and honestly if they don't change their attitude real quick, uninviting them is definitely the best answer. Never invite them back. HIDING HIS INHALER? Things like tattle tail and what not is a typical response from bullies and reading all this has bullies written all over it. Your dad should be proud if he actually values those things and it truly is why tested your fianc. This was them seeing if he would literally die. Go slash their tires and egg their cars. But if you only slash 3 tires you have to pay out of pocket. This needs to be your hill to die on before your fiance really actually dies. were not shunning her. Also I hope this doesn't take the shine off your wedding OP, and remember that day is about making two people happy, nobody else. You're NTA. OP may or may not have been explicit about why, but she is changing the way she treats their father. They committed destruction of property at the very least. Who wins out of this? Your entire family is toxic and dangerous. . Before they say their next word have him explain this is what true strength is. Me and his bio son arent on good terms. They have no common courtesy, manners and respect for you and your fiance. People really underestimate how fatal an asthma attack is. Ask them who was going to take responsibility if he died. That's your partner - and your family. OP is fucking tim over by the numbers by waffling. i suppose it could be possible, but she wanted to go with me up until she got better seats. Those are the only answers any concerned parties need to know. Be sure to throw in about how they are sissies and not very manly for not making it through this simple challenge without help. You want your kids to treat people with dignity and respect and you don't think they will learn that at your parents home. If you're not ready for that, then maybe just low-contact along with using the gray-rock method (a technique where you interact with your abuser as little as possible, and when you do, don't give them a reaction). "NTA. Dad has high expectations, but he is never mean about it (you won't even know you're tested). Privacy Policy. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? I definitely would have pressed charges. They literally could have killed him. It's not up to OP to "not let this ruin her relationship with her family.". Obviously Tim went on that camping trip with them for you, he clearly does not like these people. Or not even cut them off, just make sure I am not in the position where they could do that to me again e.g. for months. You gotta step up for your man, yourself, and your future children because no way this stops at the wedding. The soft college boy clearly they feel insecure around him or they wouldnt treat him like that! OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i am thinking about uninviting my sister from my mothers birthday dinner because she abruptly left me to go to the concert with someone else. I call this sort of thing radioactive stupidity. They all sound like terrible people. I barely have that wherewithal NOW, and I'm into my 30s. Talk with Tim about it and ask about his genuine opinion. A place where it's obvious OP is the asshole. You dont need any of them in your life. Agreed. 2) There is nothing wrong with the name Timmy. The slashed tires should have been the end of it. I hope he realizes that unless you stand up for him and put your dumb ass family in their place - he should move on. Don't let his presence tarnish a day that is meant to celebrate how amazing and strong you are. I call it either attempted murder or criminally malicious death. Slashing his tires? NTA. Frankly, who cares if they respect Tim, the question is, does Tim respect them? NTA for uninviting them to the wedding but you are huge AH for not shutting their antics down sooner and continuing to subject Tim to these bullies. You wouldnt hide someones epipen or insulin. Recently, he TOLD ME he was taking my car to see his bio son. What happens when they want to start testing the manliness of a child and start with these pranks? What will they do next, cut his brake lines? Also when I had no health insurance I almost was literally about to die of the paramedics where a few minutes late then they where. At what point during his asthma attack would they be able to tell if he was being soft or if it was real? Because it sure as hell isn't Earth. They maybe expected him to go buy tires and change them by himself instead of getting help or the car taken to a place that fixes these problems? I could definitely see these assholes trying to cover something like that up. Because I'm sure as hell don't think it will stop at the wedding. and it would be lost if theyre banned from the wedding. You did not ruin your relationship with your family. NTA. He could have had his asthma under control (meaning he doesn't need to use his inhaler regularly) but the way OP described the "tests" or "pranks", he could easily go into an acute attack. I explained that if he just came to events and gave it a shot he would see that everyone is good now and is moving forward except him and his wife. Get out or get on board. NTA. Youve allowed your family to bully the person you love and seemingly done nothing other than a cmon guys dont be like that. AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! It's obvious they have preconceived ideas on what a real man is (going so far to risk your finances health). Do not invite them back! Rip out the engines with a crane/lift and angle-grinder, to see if they fix it themself or they are lazy people.. That's idiotic. I don't think I am the asshole because I suffered years of his abuse and don't feel I deserve to be spoken to like that. It's not funny, it's messed up. (I was diagnosed at the urgent care with a failing galbladder. Cut those toxic people out and go be happy with the man who loves you. Theyre all examples of toxic masculinity. I grew up in a sorta fucked up family. He could have died while they played the prank hiding his inhaler. her mother very clearly is an enabler. NTA. The opposite in fact. I dont know what they intend to prove but they only proved they are mean AH. Just not worth the hassle for someone who won't even bother standing up for you until your life is in danger. Unbeknownst to me for most of my parent's married life, they had issues and finally divorced when I was 12. NTA. Its fucking property damage! Lastly, as you're getting married, I don't know if you're planning to have children, but there is a genetic component to asthma, so you also have to consider the ramifications of ignoring this behavior now and your children spending time with the men in your family in the future. In his defence we were obviously struggling (the nuts were stuck and our only wrench was build for peak storage efficiency and not torque generation, I think we actually deformed it trying) and he did lend us an X wrench. No amount of masculine hobbies excuses that. Theyve done damage to private property and have threatened the life of your fianc. OP has screamed at them to stop, and they only escalated the severity of their hazing. What's worse is, I can see people like this waiting for future opportunities for "man tests" at family events going forward. A part of me wants you to send that guy flowers with a card that says "Sorry for your loss." Study after study has shown that men presenting with the same symptoms as women are more likely to be listened to, taken seriously, and receive appropriate & timely medical care. He TOLD ME that hed be taking my car and I should take the train. Asthma is a serious medical condition and if he had had an attack and they couldn't find his stolen medication, he could have been in a world of trouble. Everyone here takes the right choice as a foregone conclusion, but Id spend days having a panic attack if that was thrust on me. Pranks where people can legitimately die are rarely funny. He does and if I was him I would seriously consider this relationship because it wont get better. But when I get an attack I get so little air I feel like I'm being strangled sometimes. You don't have to tell me about how awful some doctors can be. A set of new tires will easily run you $600-$800, that is a very expensive prank and I absolutely would have taken them to small claims court over it. He was supposed to be the adult who loved and protected you, instead he manipulated and gaslight you in some of the most pivotal years of your life (so far). You should have put your foot down as soon as this stuff started. If you give in, they'll keep thinking that their bullying is acceptable or funny. and her Mom Is a no better. They are bullying. Are they rednecks? ESH except your fianc. But the question is if she's the AH for uninviting them to the wedding, so I guess she's off the hook for that. Show your mom this thread so she can see that most normal people do not think it was okay AT ALL. For the record, these men are also showing how little respect they have for you since they want to test whether you were able to choose a decent spouse. Enough internet for today. OPyes, this is the hill you are willing to die on. NTA. Stick with your opinion you are not exaggerating. Fuck people like this and their asinine 'pranks'. Id have bounced at the slashing tires. Responding to the Redditor's decision to uninvite his mother and sister from his wedding, thousands of commenters assured the 32-year-old that he was justified in doing so, and dragged the two . I feel bad for your whole situation. Honestly that was pretty rude of her but unless her actions were specifically malicious I don't think she is the asshole NAH. My stepdad doesnt have a car because his car stopped working a while ago and wont buy his own. NTA for disinviting them stand your ground OP. Yeah they sound toxic as hell. It might be beneficial for you to also post this in r/raisedbynarcissists and do some research (if you haven't already) on narcissistic parents. He needs to man up! this. Theyd be lucky if being disinvited was the worst thing youd do to them. NTA. I cant imagine how they will treat your kids. I apologize for the slur against Neanderthals. My asthma isn't terrible but I'd be fuming if someone dared to put me in the danger of not being able to breathe properly. Not OP, but I've experienced something very similar. Next time they try to manipulate you into downplaying their behavior by holding their respect for Tim at ransom, tell them they will lose your respect and see how much they care about it, my guess is they won't. Toxic masculinity at it's finest. Once, when I was hospitalized, I was suddenly unable to breathe due to fluid in my lungs- thanks pneumonia- and it was one of the most terrifying things I've ever experienced. Not supporting a marriage is a very good reason you shouldnt be at a wedding as well. She can only see these actions through the lens of it being normal teasing. Please review our FAQ if you're unsure what that means. They're just AH and none of what they're doing is pranking, IMHO they're intimidated by someone that is more educated then their dumb asses. These arent pranks, theyre straight up dangerous. If you are serious about your fianc, I would ditch the family all together. I finally gave up and told him that I will not continue to be subjected to his abuse and he's no longer welcome in my life. There's no right answer. My life (in my childish head) was crushed. I wandered around saying "fucking men!" NTA I have a large amount of male cousin I am female they joke but nothing like what you are describing. Someone might think you are serious instead of joking. You need to cut contact and tell your mom if she doesnt see why then she gets cut as well. Go elope. My friends and I, all Afab and babyfaced enough to look like we were 18-25 once got asked what was holding up the car in a concerned tone while we were trying to change a tire. An inhaler is used for a life saving breathing issue. Absolutely none of this is "good natured fun". Or things kids do not realizing how serious it can be. Family up and ruined the relationship with her and her apparently saintly fiance who still wants to marry her after all of this and hasn't had these people arrested. Demands were never gonna do shit, actions were. He absolutely should have pressed charges and taken OP's family to small claims court over this stunt. For no reason. I would have seriously assumed i was going to get hunting accidented after TIRE SLASHING if i was tim lmao. These people are sick, and they stay in a pack to reinforce each others sickness. NTA its bullshit toxic masculinity, men do not test each other like this unless they have frail egos themselves. Just as an aside, do you know what it is like to try and stand up, do the right thing, or even just express a new opinion, and have people laugh you off or talk over you just because you're a small, female-born, young-looking individual? When the complain have him directly tell them to stop whining and take it like men do. slashing tires?? Wouldnt it increase their respect for both of them as a couple if that despicable quartet come out of this wedding with the ULTIMATE wedding favour, aka mug shots and restraining orders? Knowledge and wisdom are threatening to people with small minds. She's from a family of AHs, and she's bordering on it herself for not doing a hard shut-down sooner. They are being toxic AH, stealing necessary medication is not a prank. He told me how selfish i am and that he wont be coming if my mom is there and that i only got that scholarship because of him. Im a woman, but it my now-husbands family had treated me even 10% this badly, literally committed crimes against me they could be charged with criminally, I would not have continued dating him, much less married into his family. Risking death because your family is shit just isnt worth it in the long run. If they even slashed in a way that could be plugged. No adult man wants some rando on the internet trying to convince people his name means he's immature or not "man enough". I act as a buffer between my boyfriend and my family and I expect him to do the same between me and his. NTA, but your fiance deserves a better woman. Keep your nice shiny spine and keep standing up for your partner. I have asthma too, its mild enough that Ive never had to go to hospital, but I have had to sit for in the local doctor on the nebuliser a few times. I basically told him that if he is considering not coming then dont even bother. I really hope they paid for the damage when they slashed his tyres. Oh he's dead! I would have dumped OP and never gotten involved with this family if she didn't stick up for me. NTA. Your male relations are bullies. Run off with your fianc and dont look back. AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! Press J to jump to the feed. Not bordering on criminal. Sorry youre going through this OP. This is curious that your siblings are not on your side . If my husband do this to me one day, aka letting people bully me, he would find himself very lonely because I'll be gone. Even bullying seems like too light of a word. I actually disagree with everyone who says you're not the asshole because you very clearly are. What theyre doing is ritualised abuse motivated by toxic masculinity. This would have been a dealbreaker for me. It's obvious they have preconceived ideas on what a real man is (going so far to risk your fiance health). And then expect better from family. Dad and his cronies are all abusive assholes. NTA - Hiding someone's inhaler is not a harmless prank! NTA ! My own family has a long history of addiction. He's an American actually fortunate enough to have access to healthcare and is bragging that he doesn't get it, despite obviously needing it? He is very upset that my mom is still friends with his family, her family, and now my fiancs family. So, yeah - man up and die for real. Slashing tires, hiding medications? Yeah that's why I normally use it in any situation where I type sarcasm. I hate to say it, but she set him up for it. Theyre literally vandalizing a vehicle and engaging in medical abuse to prove some sort of sick and twisted toxic masculinity flex. He could have died. He should know better. They've shown they aren't capable, loving, supportive people. Hey Timmy Jr! NTA and personally I'd go no contact. If your mother ends up not going at least she has made her choice and you know that. Your family are living in another century and you're NTA. Don't just uninvite these people from your wedding; uninvite them from your and your fianc's lives. Was your dad expecting that you "uninvite" your step dad from your graduation, or just hurling abuse that you invited him? what if he needed his inhaler? They've got everything backwards - it's not their right or job to test him. Their little prank couldve cost your fianc his life. I feel like the AH because I overreacted and probably couldve compromised for a day. If anyone did this to my husband I would have saw red. I think you all let it go to far before you stood up for him. I had my first asthma attack when I was 5, and I don't know when this whole "test" thing starts in your family, but it has the potential to kill your future kids. They could have killed him with their prank that is so fed up. You CHOSE him and said here's the man i love and want to share my life and future with, and this is how they treat that love? I even got ignored by her extended family for a year because, when visiting their trailer for a weekend, I waited for instruction instead of just "jumping in and doing it" when they were rebuilding docks, something I'd never experienced before. She's not an asshole for being related to shitty people. In addition to that, YTA for letting things get this bad. Disrespect to him is disrespect to you. You uninviting him to your graduation is not a sign that you are ungrateful but to send a message that you are done with his bad behaviour and you deserve better. Having just recovered from an asthma attack a day ago, I can attest that asthma is no joke. Wow I wonder how manly they would be if your poor partner suffered a major attack and sadly passed. What they did was just so cruel. Shrug and say that was your family? Your family is driving the wedge between you. And they certainly already dont like him, considering the names they have already called him. There's a reason there's quite a lot of these shops, tires are heavy, can be difficult to adjust correctly and you wouldn't wanna risk your life just cause you aren't 100% sure you did everything perfectly. Who carrys 4 plug kits? I f25 along with my two brothers Dean & Kevin (both 30s) went through rough time during our parents divorce, mom got married to my stepdad and we lived with him for years. His worth js as a humannot reliant on their approval or testing. They will neither sit down nor shut up. Yeah- it bothers me that OP calls slashing someone's tires is "a prank". He had healthcare. These are all bullies who've been allowed to reign free. I've had male coworkers of a certain age come to work with unrelenting chest pain. That how they drained mine, too, so maybe I got the wrong term there. . Stick to your guns, because you're completely right. The way your parents have reacted is worse. I thought my family was crazy. It's been five years since I realized what was going on, and only one sibling has come to the same conclusion since then. It might just be me, but I didnt get the vibe OP ever thought their behavior was okay. I personally have no qualms with cutting people out of my life if they're cruel or indulge cruelty. On of my very adult colleagues is called "Timmy" by everyone, and if you call him "Tim" he'll (nicely) correct you. Arent we trying to advocate for mens mental health? He also gets occasional chest pain. AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank? Abuse. Fixing cars or whatever is a "manly" thing to do, but even if they can fix cars, there is nothing manly about these guys. The blaming is another form of abuse (like aftershocks from an earthquake). Honestly we should make a sister sub for AITA. For real. The men in your family are a bunch of nut jobs. Today the victim is your fiance. It was infuriating and that was just a case of bad luck. Dont just erase them from your wedding, yeet them from your life. The moment they started with their shit you should have put a stop to it. Your family are not pranksters but criminals. What they did was incredibly stupid. Who shows you affection and makes you happy and feel loved? Your family is bullying him and you just let them. Im waiting for the post here titled Would I Be The Asshole If I broke off my engagement to a woman whose family has been terrorizing me?. Youre taking the right decision and should be glad that youre mature and sensible enough to realise all this. Something like if I brake this plate then dad will beat me and not mom Understanding these types of issues helped me see the patterns in my family an step pit of these roles. Or he leaves her, and her family continues driving away every decent person until she finally ends up with someone as abusive as they are. Do not invite them to the wedding and time to go no contact. Ask them how they would like mug shots and restraining orders and if THOSE, decorating your guest sign in table, would increase their respect for you as a couple. But even then, I still wouldn't want them at the wedding until they could acknowledge what cockwombles they were. Because if she has an asthma attack and is more than 3 feet from one, she will die. Which kind of person do you honestly think will be there, when the lights go out? NTA they gone far beyond pranks are just bullying him now. NTA these are not pranks, this is just immature and terrible behavior. Check out our upcoming Reddit Talk With John Hodgman on January 18th @ 7pm EST. I am assuming your fiance has been putting up with this out of respect for you and your family. Thank you for writing this so that I didnt have to. They would have just said he had left it at the campsite and tossed it back with his things or just lost it or something. I remember when I was a child- the feeling of pure panic when I couldnt breathe, trying to gasp for air but everytime I took even a shallow breath in it triggered a coughing fit. You also suck for waiting this long but at least you have done something now. Stand your ground, these assholes need to learn their actions have consequences. "We just wanted to see if he would be able to save himself with no brakes, because if he can't he clearly isn't a manly man like us". What about them proving to you that they are decent people who love and care about you? live happily now :). Id cut this family off completely. 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